Kindness...?!

What is wrong with being nice? what is wrong with being kind to people around?
it's a very good thing to help people. But what if those people misuse your kindness?? how would you feel?? we help them with all our hearts, but then, they keep on asking for help as a result of their carelessness, and we are the one to sacrifice our time, strength or even money.. hmmm... It feels really good to help people who are really in need, but of their carelessness? of their miscalculation? even because of their fault not thinking about the result of what they do.
Crazy, isn't it? taking things for granted, but then, you ask other people to do it for you. Why don't you just do it yourself? you made it at the beginning, you should have know what will you do with it next. Try being responsible with what you do. What if there's no other people to help? I don't know what was on their mind. Is that that the true definition of what is called friendship? I don't think so. We do sacrifice for our friends, but what if your friends treat you the other way? they take your sacrifice for granted. How would you feel? Friends, friendship... kinda blur on my sight. Keep being kind to all people with no limits?
reminds me of what happened last friday, on my way to Bandung.
I had permit from my boss to go home earlier that day. Travel to Bandung were all fully booked. So I went to one of the travel pool for waiting list. Thanks God, I got a seat. There was a man who came by and ask for 2 empty seats. He didn't get any, so he asked the ticket man where is the nearest travel agent. He mentioned one far, so I by my own initiative gave him a close travel agent's phone number. But since the departure time has come, there were people who didn't come so he replaced those seats. I thought it was him and his wife, since he ordered for 2, but it was both men in the end. The man who I talked to sat next to me. He asked where I was going, and where do I work. He then asked for my number. The stupid part of me is that I don't know how to refuse giving my number which last knowing I was mentioning 081xxxxxxxx. He called just to show his number. He asked my name, I was going to say another name, but again, ended up saying "Sindy". What the hell!! He keeps on asking questions, then the man asked me where I'm gonna be staying, "my friend's place" I said. He asked for the same question twice, and he said "just stay at the hotel. I'll open a room for you". I was shocked, but I just said "I will stay in my friends house". I stayed away from him since then. What a crazy man!!!!! I helped him, but ended up that way.
Owh, I forgot something. I just put on my earphone, listening to music. But since my battery was going down, I turned it off but keep the earphone on my ear. Haha..!! As we arrived, he asked "ada jemputan, mba?" which means "it there anyone picking you up?" I just pretend I didn't hear. I called my boyfriend, but the man keeps on asking "is there anyone picking you up?" two times. I kept on talking on the phone with my boyfriend, telling him that the car stopped on the other side of the travel pool. I hurried down, and catch up with my boyfriend. Hummmpppfffhh!!! what a day!!